My boyfriend never wants to have sex anymore. Donald Trump. Ladies, this happens. He may be physically ill or on anti-depressants, as well as prostate medicine, all of which can affect erectile function. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Too much work and not enough play makes his penis feel very dull indeed. If your partner has issues in their work, family, or personal life, ask what you can do to support them. I didn't want a bar of it and it hurt coz i knew she was hurting but i was so lost, spiralling out of control. We have been together for almost a year now. Often in relationships with these sorts of issues not being able to recognise it is half the battle. You've gone through the typical exercises of seduction, friendship and caring, only to have been rejected and thwarted again and again.